Yesterday during Group Therapy, we read an email from a Rock-A-Holic named Brian.
Brian was engaged until his fiancé decided he wasn’t good enough for her, so she would go out drinking and partying behind his back.
When she didn’t delete her text messages, Brian found that she was talking to guy and pretending she was single. She did end up cheating on him one weekend and he kicked her out of his house.
The now ex started dating the guy she cheated with, but the weird thing is that the “home wrecker” wants to go have a beer with Brian. Already I dislike that guy for thinking that was ok to do.
Brian’s ex called him crying asking if she can come over and when he said “HELL NO,” she wrote him a long text message saying she misses him, is sorry, and wants to work it out.
This is an open in shut case for most people, the only problem is, Brian says he is 90% sure he WILL NOT get back together with her but they do have a baby together.
Our show has been around for over 13 years, and something I have always tried teaching men throughout the years is to stop putting babies before marriage.
It doesn’t matter what women have to say about it, some like to have it all even though they can’t handle that. Men have to be responsible about this so they don’t end up getting screwed over later like Brian has.
When it comes to babies, women become deluded because it’s a hormonal thing just like men get deluded when it comes to doing the act that makes babies; it’s biology.
So guys, remember, marriage first, babies later and you will live a happier life.
Normally I agree with everything u say Bj, but I'm 20 yrs old and have a baby girl. Me and her mom arnt married yet but I still couldn't have asked for a better life. And she the only girl I've ever dated or been with and I wouldn't have it any other way. I still u are awesome, listen to u every morning since I was around 15 yrs old.
If you would agree to substitute solid commitment for marriage, I might agree with you. Marriage is an out-dated concept, like dowrys. We don't need to involve the government to have commitment.
outdated part 2
i agree that marriage these days is way over rated, ppl dont get married for the same reasons anymore. yea sure there exceptions to that but really how many ppl have u known in your life that were only married a year or two and then were screwd because of the divorce. if ur not married theres no divorce u just leave, nice concept right? i mean c'mon if u really love the person u shouldnt have to show them that by getting the documentation from the government. and when it comes to kids guys just need to be more responsible. pull out dumb asses, even if shes on birth control. cant listen as often anymore man but love the show guys, u guys are awesome.
Everytime this subject comes up the main reason that ppl don't marry is to "avoid the cost of divorce if things don't work out." And those who DO marry, do so with the thought that "if things don't work out, we can always get a divorce."
This is a sign that they don't truly believe that they will stay together for life. So why bring a child into such an unstable arrangement?
If u can't commit,forget the kids. They deserve so much more than that.
It's "committed for life". Not "committed for now."