BJ'S BLOG 01/03/13 "Marriage first, then Babies "
Yesterday during Group Therapy, we read an email from a Rock-A-Holic named Brian.
Brian was engaged until his fiancé decided he wasn’t good enough for her, so she would go out drinking and partying behind his back.
When she didn’t delete her text messages, Brian found that she was talking to guy and pretending she was single. She did end up cheating on him one weekend and he kicked her out of his house.
The now ex started dating the guy she cheated with, but the weird thing is that the “home wrecker” wants to go have a beer with Brian. Already I dislike that guy for thinking that was ok to do.
Brian’s ex called him crying asking if she can come over and when he said “HELL NO,” she wrote him a long text message saying she misses him, is sorry, and wants to work it out.
This is an open in shut case for most people, the only problem is, Brian says he is 90% sure he WILL NOT get back together with her but they do have a baby together.
Our show has been around for over 13 years, and something I have always tried teaching men throughout the years is to stop putting babies before marriage.
It doesn’t matter what women have to say about it, some like to have it all even though they can’t handle that. Men have to be responsible about this so they don’t end up getting screwed over later like Brian has.
When it comes to babies, women become deluded because it’s a hormonal thing just like men get deluded when it comes to doing the act that makes babies; it’s biology.
So guys, remember, marriage first, babies later and you will live a happier life.
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