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BJ Shea

 BJ Shea


BJ'S BLOG 01/09/12 "The Meaning of Love"

Last Friday during Listeners on the Loose, we received a call from a Rock-A-Holic named “Hook.”

He wanted to comment on the Group Therapy topic we had earlier in the week about the woman who wanted to know when to introduce her son to her new boyfriend of only three weeks.

Hook explained that he was in a similar situation; he has an 8-year-old daughter and six months after breaking up with his ex, he started dating someone new. His ex, the mother of his daughter, said that his new girlfriend wasn’t allowed to meet their daughter for at least a year and a half.

Like an honorable guy, Hook did not go back on his promise and he waited a year and half for his girlfriend and his daughter to meet.

Within that year and a half, Hook’s ex did have a lot of guys but never had them come around their daughter until she started dating this one guy. After a few weeks of dating, she wanted to introduce her new boyfriend to their daughter. Hook told her that she had to wait a year and a half just like he did and she had to honor the rules.

She said that she didn’t have to go by those rules because she was in love with this guy.
First off, I‘m not surprised that she did this.

Second off, can we please find another word for “love”? I am really starting to hate that word because of all of the people misusing it.

When you meet someone for the first time, that is lust and infatuation but it’s not really love.

Do you want to know what love is? Love is staying with someone for 25 years when she doesn’t want to talk to you because she’s pissed off, the kids are driving you crazy, and yet you still come home to her every night and give her a hug and tell her that you love her. That is love; love is commitment, trust, and hard work. It’s not this feeling you get when you first start seeing someone and everything is still good and happy.

If we could please find another word for the “love” people feel at the beginning of a relationship, I would be a lot happier.




 
01/09/2012 7:00AM
BJ'S BLOG 01/09/12 "The Meaning of Love"
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01/09/2012 10:33AM
Some women...
BJ I cannot agree more people toss the word love around like its candy. That woman is a stupid hypocrite and sadly another disappointing embarrassment to women.
01/09/2012 4:32PM
I've seen alot of men and women do the same thing.
I am a single father and I only became serious with one girl in the last 6 years. I was seeing her for 6 or 7 months before I introduced her to my kids. I dont really date due to no time between work and my kids. Im happy with where my life is with them. I have recieved dirty looks and lost a few "friends" who are single parents by voicing my opinion about them introducing someone they have only known for a few weeks to their child. Thats irrisponcible and unfair to the child. By this point you would have no real knowlege of this person and if you find it ok for someone you barley know to be around your child you are a d-bag. I dont think you should let your kids run your life but give them some respect and dont put them in an uncomfortable situation either.
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