BJ'S BLOG 02/13/14 "Sex Dream"
Romance is in the air, my friends!
Here at Group Therapy, we’re giving out little candy hearts that say things like SEEK HELP IMMEDIATELY and YOU’VE GOT ISSUES. After all, isn’t honesty the best policy when it comes to interpersonal relationships?
Well…it is sometimes.
Janet is a Rock-A-Holic who needs help with a situation that could easily turn into a nightmare. She was talking to a longtime male friend on the phone recently, and he confessed that he’d had a sex dream about her. Janet is really wishing that he hadn’t told her about the dream, because she’s not only friends with him, she’s also close to his WIFE. Oh, and the happy couple recently had a baby, too!
A sex dream about a friend has no real meaning to Janet, but this guy went into specific detail, and she felt like they were having phone sex (although it sounds like he may have been doing all the talking.)
The whole experience has left Janet feeling disturbed and confused. Should she tell his wife? Was he even telling the truth, or maybe making an attempted pass at Janet? Is this something she can just ignore, and hope that it never comes up again?
Bonus Question for HONESTY POINTS: Have you ever lied about having a sex dream in order to figure out if the person you’re telling is interested in hooking up?