BJ'S BLOG 03/14/13 "Shady"
Yesterday, we read a text sent to us at 77999 from a Rock-A-Holic named Julie who is worried about something that her boyfriend is doing.
Whenever her boyfriend receives a call or a text message, he suddenly starts acting “shady.”
He told her that he likes his privacy and doesn’t like people knowing what he’s doing all the time. This worried Julie and wanted to know if she had the right to feel like he’s hiding another girl from her?
Here’s the thing; just because people are in a relationship doesn’t mean you have to share every detail with one another. Privacy is a very important factor that couples must respect. My wife doesn’t know any of my passwords not for my Facebook, my phone, or anything and I prefer it that way. She on the other hand doesn’t
That being said, there is a line of shadiness that once it gets crossed, expect to get questioned. Everyone gets those “gut feelings” that something is wrong and on average women are more in tuned with their intuition.
The best thing to do is talk with your significant other when there is a problem and if you still can’t trust them, then hit a counselor …or the road.