BJ'S BLOG 04/23/13 "Phone Cheating"
Earlier this week, during Group Therapy, we read an email from a Rock-A-Holic named Christian who is having issues with her fiancé.
She recently found out he has been having secret phone conversations with another woman for over a year now! The way she found out was that he used her cell phone to call her when his died. He said he was talking to the auto mechanic but after he called this strange number a few times from her phone, she decided to call it.
When she called, it went to the voicemail of a woman she knows. When she confronted her fiancé about why he would be talking to this woman and lying about it, he said that it’s not that big of a deal and threw the fact that she still contacts her ex in her face.
Christian admits she still keeps in contact with her ex husband but that’s because they have a child together and they have to!
First off, this is who she agreed to marry and he’s obviously not very intelligent…so what does this say about her. When anyone wants to complain about their significant other’s idiotic actions, they have to stop and remember they chose to be with this “genius.”
Secondly, I feel like women are starting to feel the effects from the demands of some women back in the 80’s and 70’s. Some of the women from those eras wanted men to become more sensitive and become their friends. Now in the year 2013, men are doing just that, they are making and staying friends with females but it creates conflict once they get into relationships.
It was also pointed out that maybe this guy wanted to get caught and have Christian break up the relationship. Either way, before saying “I do” they should get some counseling to see if they really should be saying “I Don’t.”