Yesterday during Group Therapy, we read an email from a Rock-A-Holic named Bill.
He went to his buddy’s bachelor party the other week and everything was great until he received a letter from this buddy’s future bride.
You attended a party that was meant to be the last night out for my future husband with his friends. Instead, you turned it into something horrible. We request that you no longer be a part of it. 4 do not want to celebrate my marriage with a man who encouraged my fiancé to take off his clothes and touch some slut.
I can’t stop him from being friends with you but I insist that you don’t attend the wedding.”
Bill wasn’t sure what to do or say and his girlfriend suggested that he just dump him as a friend.
There are so many things that irritate me about this letter to Bill.
First off, a bachelor party does not mean the last night out with friends. When you get married, it doesn’t mean you don’t get to have nights out with your buddies anymore it just means that you don’t get to sleep with other people anymore.
Second off all, let’s be honest, it wasn’t “we” who requested Bill not come, it was all her. Why would anyone get mad at the fact that a groom to be was hammered at his bachelor party and had a stripper there?
If that is the case with this bride to be and she can’t get over it, why is she getting married anyways?
If you are that insecure, you need therapy and then when you mature enough, you can get married.
Someone suggested that Bill should only honor her request as long as he hears it from his buddy face to face and I think that’s a good way to go about. Show you are the bigger person because clearly this bridezilla is not.