BJ'S BLOG 06/14/14 "Catching Your Daughter's Boyfriend in the Act"
Thank you for being so loyal and trustworthy, my sweet Rock-A-Holics! You make this Group Therapy relationship of ours so easy!
We heard from Sarah, who was out running errands when she saw her daughter’s boyfriend in his car with another girl. To make matters worse, the girl in the car was Sarah’s daughter’s best friend…and then Sarah saw the boyfriend kiss her! The two parted ways then, and Sarah managed to break off her surveillance without being seen.
Later, Sarah asked her daughter how things were going with the boyfriend, and the daughter said that she misses him…because he’s supposed to be gone all week on a fishing trip!
Oh, man. This is not good.
I don’t know how old the daughter is, but Sarah says the romantic relationship has been going on for a year, and the daughter and her best friend have known each other for 15 years! I’m guessing this is a late-teens relationship. That doesn’t make things any easier, but it’s far better for this kind of nonsense to happen to Sarah’s daughter while she’s still young enough to bounce back from it.
Sarah would love some advice, so I’m turning this one over to you, friends! Should Sarah tell her daughter what she saw?