BJ Shea

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BJ'S BLOG 07/10/12 "Half Brother"

Yesterday during Group Therapy, we read a text from a Rock-A-Holic named “Pat.”

 “Pat” recently met her half brother who is friends with some of her friends but he has no idea they are siblings.

What happened was that their dad had an affair with “Pat’s” mom which ended when her mom got pregnant with her. 

“Pat” met her father last year but he didn’t want to have a relationship with her and didn’t tell his family about her.

Even though that was the case, she has gotten to know her half brother through mutual friends and has gotten to see that he is a cool guy but isn’t sure if she should tell him that they are related.

Recently we’ve had a lot of Group Therapies about people wanting to find long lost relatives but this situation is a tough one. Normally I would say don’t go looking for a family that may not accept you and start drama but this is different.

It’s one thing if you are looking to dig up information, but in this case, it’s already there.

It just sucks that her birth father wants nothing to do with her and it’s probably because he doesn’t want everyone to know about his affair in the first place.

Whatever “Pat” decides to do in this case, she is not in the wrong. Who IS in the wrong is that father who was not responsible with his penis. If you go out and make babies with multiple women then leave, expect that anything can happen and that you will have to pay for it sooner or later.

“Pat’s” biological dad can’t blame anyone for what happens in this situation but himself. If “Pat” decides she wants a relationship with her brother and it makes everyone hate him for lying and cheating, that is all on him.




 
07/10/2012 7:02AM
BJ'S BLOG 07/10/12 "Half Brother"
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07/10/2012 6:08PM
On your date rape comments this morning
BJ, Today on your show you made a misguided comment that a woman can just claim date rape if she is too drunk on a date or "makes a mistake" she regrets. Please, correct your statement. A lot of people listen to you and your comments perpetuate a culture in which victims of sexual assault are seen to be "crying wolf" when a vast, vast majority are not...and the truth is that one in three women in the US will be sexually assaulted in their lifetime. One in three. It's staggering. And when it comes to responsibility - if a partner has sexual relations with another partner who is too drunk to remember or make a choice, then it's not consensual and is, indeed, date rape.
07/10/2012 8:49PM
Date rape jokes are not OK
BJ -- I also heard your comments about date rape this morning and I was horrified. If you have sex with someone who is too inebriated to make a clear decision, that is date rape. When a radio DJ or anyone else with a broadcast opinion makes it seem that it would be the woman's fault, you are telling men that they would be innocent if they choose to take advantage of someone who is inebriated. Be more responsible with your words.
07/11/2012 8:21AM
Whats up
Hey BJ, your show seems to be soft!! Is this not a mans show? Why all the high school anticts? "my boyfriend still talks to his ex mom?" who cares!! We as men must have self confidence. and this in the long run will weed out the rats and find the jewels.
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