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BJ Shea

 BJ Shea

BJ'S BLOG 07/15/14 "Sex-cuses"

When the weather gets hot, it’s important to use protection.
WHAT? I’m talking about sunscreen! Get your minds out of the gutter! Jeez, you people are a bunch of perverts.
And now, let’s talk about a recent survey conducted by Durex condoms. (No, this is not a sponsored blog entry; we’re just a bit surprised by the results of this little fact-finding exercise.)
Apparently, men are making enough excuses for not having sex that Durex came up with a Top Ten list. Let’s go over that one more time, folks: there are MEN out there who are coming up with reasons to NOT HAVE SEX.
I…uh…what? I can barely comprehend this. In my entire life, I don’t think I’ve made an excuse to have less sex. I’ve put in a lot of work making the case for MORE sex, but this is a whole new idea for me.
Check out some of these reasons:
“I want to watch sports”
“I have a bad back”
 “I’ve got a headache”
“I’ve been working late”
“I’m too drunk”
“I’m willing, but let’s wait until later”
These may be the documented excuses, but I can’t imagine they’re difficult to overcome, if the other party is persistent. If a woman says she’s not interested, then it’s very likely not happening, no matter how hard we try. Guys are far easier to trigger into physical readiness. We’re simple like that.
GUYS! Are you making these excuses? GIRLS! Are you hearing them? Give us the lowdown!

07/15/2014 7:28AM
BJ'S BLOG 07/15/14 "Sex-cuses"
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07/15/2014 11:07AM
Man Card
1 word... REVOKED! Too Drunk might be the only one that works because maybe your too drink for the soldier stand at attention.
07/15/2014 11:07AM
Rubbed one out
I masturbated 20 minutes ago in the bathroom...
07/15/2014 11:25AM
Sad Girl...
I just got a sex-cuse last night. "Can I watch my show first?" 2 hours later I had fallen asleep. I said, "thanks for out-waiting me again." Very frustrating... In many ways!!!
07/15/2014 11:26AM
I'm just too stressed out from work, or I have too much on my mind, or I'm feeling too anxious.
07/15/2014 11:35AM
I hear the depression excuse a lot, or that he just can't keep up.
07/15/2014 11:42AM
I know it's only 9pm. But, man. I'm feeling Pretty tired
07/15/2014 11:50AM
I guess times are changing...
07/15/2014 11:50AM
Calling it
Even when I say I am too tired 5 min later we are in the act. So bs on that one. I might say I'm too tired but that just means I will lay there and she gets to do all the work for one.
07/15/2014 12:18PM
don't drink and drive
Well said BJ
07/15/2014 12:28PM
sexually frustrated
For the most part I only get laid when he's drinking. We've talked about it and he's self conscious because he's gained weight. I met him like that, and signed up to see him naked like that. If a pretty girl says she wants to have more sex don't you just oblige happily?
07/15/2014 12:32PM
Sad Girl - Call me!
We're having sex 1 or 2 times a day in my house and the wife just can't keep up. On occasion I have had to make excuses for why I couldn't finish (come on babe, it's our fourth time today!) or why it was taking so long (shhh... you're jinxing it.) - but NEVER an excuse as to why not to have sex. Sad Girl, I'm sad to hear your situation - I'll never out wait you; call me the next time he's into his shows!
07/15/2014 12:36PM
Hubby is 8yrs older ... Im ready all the time ... Husband has made most of these excuses ... Leaves me frustrated but I blame the age difference
07/15/2014 12:49PM
two words
Video games
07/15/2014 12:57PM
This girl has heard them!
I've heard half of these in my 10 year relationship with my boyfriend. We were just talking about this too! Anytime he wants it, he won't leave me along until I give in. Anytime I want it and he doesn't, it's not happening!
07/15/2014 1:28PM
female here
I hear headache and I'm to tired.
07/15/2014 2:08PM
Maybe your sober now?
ive used excuses when ive sobered up and realized that 10 that i left with at 2 was really a 2
07/15/2014 2:17PM
My husband had very low T. Got him to the men's clinic & he takes a shot once a week. Things are much better! Bj, you should do a show on low T!
07/15/2014 2:20PM
Used to hear these regularly.
We're only two years apart, and been together for 10 years. There's always been a gap in our sex drives. I'd like daily, or at least a few times a week, his interest is only once every 1-2 months at best. Nowadays it's not an excuse anymore, it's just a placating laugh when I flirt with him, and I know he's trying to tell me "let it go, it's not happening."
07/15/2014 3:39PM
too drunk
They may be willing mentally but physically well some guys can't stand to attention drunk if ya know what I mean. :)
07/15/2014 10:03PM
I keep him coming...
Fortunately for me, my guy is just as willing as me. I can't say I can relate to a the excuses. His only reason for taking a break is because we just did it! Probably doesn't hurt that I'm still the same size as when we met & this former Miller Girl likes to naughty it up as often as possible. *wink*
07/16/2014 7:50AM
RE: sexually frustrated
Maybe some therapy whether alone or together may help? I know it helped me with my self esteem issues from when I was younger. Good luck hun! - VB
07/16/2014 7:52AM
RE: Marykdra
It's good to hear you guys were able to find a solution! :) - VB
07/16/2014 11:41AM
Married to king of excuses
I'm too tired. I'm too sore. I'm on too many meds. Freakin' A! I'm in my late 30's and am in my sexual prime. If I didn't take my wedding vows seriously, and didn't believe cheating is wrong, I'd get myself a man toy.
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