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BJ'S BLOG 07/17/12 "What is love?"

Yesterday during Group Therapy, we read a text message we received at 77999 from a Rock-A-Holic named Chelsea. 
 
Chelsea has been in a relationship for five months and just recently her boyfriend admitted to her that he also is attracted to men. She said in the text message that she loves him and knows he loves her but is afraid that he might be using her to cover “his gay life.” 
 
The problem I had with this text message is the fact that she said she loves him and she’s only been with him for FIVE months! How can you really be in love with someone after that short of a time period? I can like someone a lot but it will take years before I truly love someone, five months is nothing! 
 
The word “love” has been ruined in today’s society because it is used for everything. “I love you!” “I love them!” “I love lamp!” The word Chelsea should have used the word “committed,” because they are clearly monogamous but haven’t been together long enough to have the true feelings of love. 
 
Another problem I had with this text is how Chelsea says that she knows he loves her but isn’t sure if he’s just using her to cover “his gay life.”
 
Here’s the deal, if you say that you know he loves you but aren’t sure if he’s just using you that means you really don’t trust him. 
 
When someone cares about another person, they decide to put things aside for that person, and that could be what Chelsea’s boyfriend is doing. 
 
Chelsea has proved that she still has a lot of growing up to do, and shouldn’t be using the word “love” yet until she learns what love really is.  
 


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07/17/2012 9:07AM
BJ'S BLOG 07/17/12 "What is love?"
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07/17/2012 10:48AM
What is love
That girl needs to run as fast as she can to get away from this guy. Bj I totally agree with u that she does not trust him and does not know Wat love really is. That girl is only gonna get hurt. Go find a good straight guy
07/19/2012 8:13AM
tony
God is Love. 1 Corinthians 13:1-13 - Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. I know its too hard for yous to understand.
07/19/2012 8:14AM
tony w
god is love. 1 Corinthians 13:1-13 - Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
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