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BJ'S BLOG 07/30/12 "Communication Between Genders"

Last week on the show, Mandy emailed us asking for help with a problem she was having with her husband over her wedding dress.  
 
Mandy and her husband have been married for three years now and the other day while online, he found that there are consignment stores that would pay good money for her wedding dress. 
 
He told her she should sell it because it takes up closet space, she would never wear again anyways and they could use the money. 
 
Like most women, she doesn’t want to part with it because of the sentimental value attached to the dress and she hopes that she can pass it along to her kids one day.
 
To makes matters worse, when she asked why they need the money, it was because he wants a jet ski. 
 
One thing guys need to realize is that most women know how to argue so you have to really think about what you’re going to say beforehand. 
 
If you’re not on your game when you go into a big conversation, you won’t come out as a victor. 
 
What ladies also need to understand is that due to this equality movement, guys have been trained to treat women the same as men. So, like a lot men, sees no sentimental value in a wedding dress. If we had an article of clothing worth that much that we would never wear again, we would sell it for the cash.
 
So ladies, this equality mission has made us men treat you equally but the genders have different values modes of communication and thought processes. The equality is about mutual respect…not cookie cutter…across the board treatment of each other. 
 


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07/30/2012 9:53AM
BJ'S BLOG 07/30/12 "Communication Between Genders"
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