BJ'S BLOG 08/06/12 "It's Still Cheating"
Last week we received an email from a Rock-A-Holic named Trevor.
Trevor has been with his girlfriend for three years and he just found out that she is messing around with her female friend. This is the third time something like this has happened.
He doesn’t want to lose his girlfriend or her family he has become very close to so he isn’t sure if he should dump her or try to make it work through couple’s therapy.
What has happened to us guys that the thought of losing your girlfriend’s family is a reason to try to make it work?
To all the ladies who are in miserable relationships with no passion or spark, you can thank the neo-feminist movement. They have turned men into sensitive, new age guys.
When I was younger, I never heard anyone in group of friends ever say anything near to what Trevor has mentioned.
It’s not that we hate our in-laws, it’s just that a wife/girlfriends and kids are the only reasons to try to keep a relationship together.
Also, if she is getting sexually satisfied by another person, that is cheating! There is nothing wrong to going out and being with whomever you want to be with regardless of gender if you’re single.
Trevor mentioned he was thinking about doing couples therapy with his girlfriend but he needs to get his own therapist first so he can go into couple’s therapy with his stuff already figured out.
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