We arwe still on vacation but will be back Monday! Enjoy one of my favorite blogs and have a great weekend!
During Group Therapy, we read an email from Levi who is having problems with his girlfriend over how to raise their child, who hasn’t even been born yet.
Levi’s girlfriend wants to move in with her folks when they baby is born so they can help raise for the first part of its life, but Levi thinks she should live with him at his home.
The main problem isn’t that she wanted to live with her mom; it’s that Levi is having a baby with his GIRLFRIEND, not his WIFE!
I don’t understand why a person, who can’t commit to marriage, would be so willing to commit to another human being for at least 18 years.
Many of the callers we received yesterday are in situations or talked about people in situations where they have children out of wedlock. When asked why they decided that’s what they wanted to do, they all said the pregnancies happened by accident.
How many times over the years have we heard stories about the 1% of people who had birth control fail them? Either they are lying or they are not intelligent enough to use it properly.
That’s why men, regardless of what the woman says, you have to be in control of your birth control!
Even If you know she is on the pill, wrap it up! If that pill fails, or if she wants to start a family without your consent, you know you are covered…literally.
Don’t be having children until you’re married, in a secure place in your life, and ready for it. It’s easy to do if you take a moment to prepare and not engage in unprotected sex. Men, wrap the rascal!