BJ'S BLOG 08/15/13 "Texting"
Earlier this week, we received a text from Carla, a Rock-A-Holic who needed our advice during Group Therapy.
She explained that her husband has been getting these texts and jokes from their daughter’s 19-year-old friend…and some of them are sexual. They are not really personal except for the fact that she is sending them to her husband.
Carla is not worried that he is going to cheat, but when she brought up how inappropriate it was to her husband, he blew up! He said they are just jokes and there is nothing wrong with it! She wanted our opinion on the subject, is she overreacting or is this really inappropriate?
I want to know what the hell has happened to men! Where have all the honrable men gone? The men who understand boundaries and understand and appropriate behavior?
NO! You don’t have any sort of exchange with your daughter’s friends especially if they involve something sexual!
We also need to be teaching young women that don’t understand the concept that when they communicate with a guy about anything sexual, it makes them think you are interested in them.
This activity should stop because not only is this guy disrespecting Carla, he is disrespecting his daughter.