BJ Shea

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BJ'S BLOG 08/28/14 "When Your Partner's Clothes Embarrass You"

Welcome back to Group Therapy, people! Everybody’s looking good—actually, just wait a second. You there, in the back - is that what you’re planning to wear for this session? It is? Oh, no, it’s cool. I was, um…I was just wondering. Enjoy the rest of the blog, but just, uh…just make sure you stay back there. We don’t want you to lose your spot.
Today’s topic comes from Beth, who has been dating a guy for about 6 months. He’s always dressed incredibly well, but she thinks he may be too comfortable now. Whenever they go out, he wears jeans, t-shirts…and Crocs.
She likes the guy a lot, but she hates the shoes so much that she’s forcing herself to get past them. This is hardly an earth-shattering Group Therapy matter, but here we are: Beth wants to know if her boyfriend is lame for wearing Crocs.
Here’s my simple answer: There will always be something that your mate does that bothers or embarrasses you. If you love them, then you figure out a way to navigate around it. I have no affection for Crocs, but I can’t help thinking that you’ve still got it pretty easy overall.
Perhaps the good people who read this blog will have something else to offer you, Beth. I’d love to hear some stories of spousal embarrassment…and BONUS HONESTY POINTS will be awarded to anyone who is willing to admit (with examples!) that they are the embarrassing one!

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08/28/2014 8:17AM
BJ'S BLOG 08/28/14 "When Your Partner's Clothes Embarrass You"
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08/28/2014 11:55AM
step out of the box - ashley in oly
Go on a date where crocs woulb be convient and more people around you are wearing them, example the beach, a park, bike ride, the spa . Then buy him some fancy shoes and or clothes for those dates you want him to be fancy. Give them to him as gifts during the "croc dates".
08/29/2014 7:20AM
RE: step out of the box - ashley in oly
She did say he would dress nice before he got "comfortable with her". I'm sure she wears sweatpants out on occasion or something. I think the only time it's ok to say anything would be if you're going somewhere it would be inappropriate - VB.
09/10/2014 12:10PM
You like the guy so much, but his shoes are a huge problem? Pass him on. Someone wants good personality even with bad shoes.
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