BJ Shea

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BJ'S BLOG 09/04/12 "Moving in a New Parent"

Last week during Group Therapy, we read a Facebook from a Rock-A-Holic named Mark who needed help on how to approach a situation involving his ex and his daughter. 

His ex and him have been separated for two years now and she’s been dating a guy for the last eight months which Mark has no problem with that. 

What he does have a problem with is that she wants to move the guy in and Mark is not comfortable having this guy sleeping in the same house as their 5-year-old daughter. 

He knows she is entitled to date whoever she wants but this guy rubs him the wrong way. 

Mark wanted to know what he could do to stop this short of involving legal action. 

It’s a scary thing when people start bringing new boyfriends or girlfriends around their kids.

Blended families are not what they appear to be on TV. I’m not saying just physical problems can happen but verbal or emotional damage can be done as well, just by the mere fact that they are not the real parent. 

No one should be moving into a home with children until they are married. Unfortunately, some people don’t see how exceptionally important this is to a child’s development and our government is really letting us down in this situation.  

They just care about tax dollars garnered from child support check, especially in this state. 

I don’t know why we don’t fight for this. Why doesn’t the kid come first? We shouldn’t let random people come live in a house with children, end of story! 




 
09/04/2012 9:23AM
BJ'S BLOG 09/04/12 "Moving in a New Parent"
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