Last week on the show, we read an email from a Rock-A-Holic named Samantha who was looking for some Group Therapy.
She recently was asked out by an ex-coworker who she has a crush on but wasn’t sure if she should go out with him because he didn’t want to date her a year ago when she was 50 pounds heavier.
It’s interesting that she is upset now because she got what she wanted. She lost the weight, she looks great, and she’s getting attention from men she likes.
Deep down inside women know that guys are first attracted to appearance. It’s not a great thing to hear but we know it’s true because it’s in our biology; men biologically judge women for breeding purposes.
It sucks that women get mad at men for not being attracted to them. I’m not going to go out of my way to tell people if they’re attractive or not but if asked and I tell the truth, women would get mad at me!
You’re not attractive to everyone. Jenny McCarthy who is someone many people idolize, is not attractive to me. It’s just the way it works!
The thing to remember is that guys will have sex with anybody but they won’t live with just anyone. If he sticks around, it’s because he finds the girl’s personality beautiful as well, but if he’s not given a chance because of how he used to feel, then a woman could miss out.