A Rock-A-Holic named Heather emailed about a problem she is having involving a co-worker.
She has a co-worker who she is really good friends with and when they both want to go to the same movie, they go together in a non-date situation.
Heather has recently realized that she really likes him and wants to start an actual relationship with the guy but is embarrassed that if she says something, he won’t return her feelings and thus ending their friendship.
This is what’s it’s like to be romantic in the year 2012. The lines of what is a friendship and courtship are so blurred to the point that you don’t know what the hell is up.
Women are more in tune with their emotions and also more susceptible to emotions than guys are.
Here is what I have to say about office relationships though, it is always tough to get involved with someone in the work place so if anyone is thinking about it, here is what they have to figure out: If that person cheats on you, could you still come to work and be a civilized person?
Are you ready for that person to break your heart, are you ready to see them every day and still get your job done without any drama?
Personal drama has no place in the work place so anyone considering an office relationship has to think long and hard if they can handle their job if things go south.
Regardless, the friendship between Heather and this guy is over because she clearly wants more and it’s not fair of her to settle with just being his friend so Heather, take the plunge.