BJ Shea

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BJ'S BLOG 10/03/12 "Pimps and Hoes"

Grant has been having issues with his daughter over a Halloween party. 

His daughter is 15-years-old and had no issue with her attending the party until he saw on the Facebook invite that it’s a “Pimps and Hoe’s” themed party. 

After he said that she could not attend a party that encourages her to dress like a “hoe”, his daughter hasn’t spoken to him and his wife thinks that he is blowing this way out of proportion. 

This is a hot button for me and it comes down to how most women don’t care about men and their hormones. 

When are some women going to realize that a guy’s teenage years are the worst when it comes to hormones? Those are the most irrational and horny years for a man and to think it’s ok to have teen girls dressing like “hoes” around them and expect them to be in control is ridiculous! 

Where is the responsibly on the woman’s part on how she presents herself in a situation where a person is having a hormonal issue?

We as men are told to understand women when they’re going through PMS, post partum depression and menopause because they are going through an extremely hormonal time and that’s fair. It wouldn’t be right for me to be a jerk during these times but I am so sick of the hypocritical double standard. If men understand when women are going through these difficult times caused by their hormones, why can’t they understand us when we are having problems? 

So letting your teenage daughter dress scantily at a party with teenage hormonal guys is highly inappropriate and not fair to the guys. Teach your daughters from a young age that their behavior can have a negative impact. 

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10/03/2012 7:30AM
BJ'S BLOG 10/03/12 "Pimps and Hoes"
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10/03/2012 12:13PM
The mom not being concerned sounds like she's trying to live through her teenage daughter. Grant has every right to refuse to let her daughter not go. Sure not every girl is going to be dressed as a "hoe" but the theme of the party is not appropriate for a 15 year old girl, she's barely hit puberty.
10/03/2012 12:26PM
what the?!
How is a party with these theme ok in ANY universe wirh 15 yr olds? I expect boys to be well behaved despite their hormones- or they lose their hands and arms and eyes. Period. Howevee I also require a young girl not throw buckets of chum into shark infested water. Expect one or more of those sharks to lose control. Grant's wife is dead wrong. End of story.
10/03/2012 12:37PM
sorry for terrible spelling. posted in a hurry and mobile.
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