BJ'S BLOG 10/22/13 "Breaking Up A Couple"
Justin is a Rock-A-Holic who has a tough situation that he’s hoping can be solved in Group Therapy. As always, we do our best to help.
Justin is new to the area, doesn’t know anyone, and rides the bus because he doesn’t have a car. Even with those obstacles in place, he still managed to meet a woman…and then had a threesome with this woman and her best friend! Obviously, being the new kid in town hasn’t been much of a problem for Justin.
Actually, there is one little problem: Both of the women have boyfriends, and have pretty much walked away from the threeway arrangement, but Justin thinks he has a serious interest in one of them. She’s made it clear that she won’t be switching boyfriends, and Justin wonders if he should try to steal her away.
We could debate the morals of the involved parties all day, but let’s boil it down to youth. These are people in their early 20s, and those are the “fun” years. Allow me to offer a different viewpoint: If you’re having threesomes with women from the bus, maybe you’re not quite ready to settle down.
Go out and have your fun, Justin. Don’t break up any couples, and start asking your potential partners if they’re spoken for in advance. Save your long-term girlfriend search until you find yourself moving on to a more stable dating lifestyle. You’ll be much happier in the long run.