Justin is a Rock-A-Holic who has a tough situation that he’s hoping can be solved in Group Therapy. As always, we do our best to help.
Justin is new to the area, doesn’t know anyone, and rides the bus because he doesn’t have a car. Even with those obstacles in place, he still managed to meet a woman…and then had a threesome with this woman and her best friend! Obviously, being the new kid in town hasn’t been much of a problem for Justin.
Actually, there is one little problem: Both of the women have boyfriends, and have pretty much walked away from the threeway arrangement, but Justin thinks he has a serious interest in one of them. She’s made it clear that she won’t be switching boyfriends, and Justin wonders if he should try to steal her away.
We could debate the morals of the involved parties all day, but let’s boil it down to youth. These are people in their early 20s, and those are the “fun” years. Allow me to offer a different viewpoint: If you’re having threesomes with women from the bus, maybe you’re not quite ready to settle down.
Go out and have your fun, Justin. Don’t break up any couples, and start asking your potential partners if they’re spoken for in advance. Save your long-term girlfriend search until you find yourself moving on to a more stable dating lifestyle. You’ll be much happier in the long run.
He needs to realize that if she does leave her boyfriend for him odds are she'll leave him for someone else. Also he's young and if he can meet someone on a bus and have a threesome he's gotta have something going for him so he should have his fun and think about serious relationships when he's old enough to understand commitment.. I agree make sure in advance if they are spoken for 1st. I don't know if this is the man code but it's mine and should apply for all men.
Remember Justin if it should have developed into a relationship could you really trust her ? Remember how you got her. I agree with Bob some women are for for FFFF. And some have a lot more to offer
and what if she has a kid with you by accident or otherwise....Wait until she grows tired of you as well and you payin for next 18 years
Why would you want to be with a dishonorable person who has such little respect for their relationship that they would cheat. He just needs to be young and single for a while! :) -