BJ'S BLOG 11/12/12 "Blackmailing at Work"
Last week, we received an email for Group Therapy that really irritated me beyond belief.
Tim wrote in saying he’s 31-years-old and will be getting married to his fiancé next month. He works in a very stiff work environment and only has one office friend and she is a female. They do talk and have their inside jokes, and even though he thinks she’s cute, he would never consider cheating on his fiancé because he says she is much hotter than his coworker and he loves his fiancé too much.
Just recently, he was surprised when this co-worker told him that she wanted him. When he said he wouldn’t do it, she black mailed him by saying that if they don’t do it; she would to tell the whole office that they did anyways.
Tim is afraid that like in most cases, they will take the woman’s word over the man’s word and doesn’t want to ruin his career or relationship over this.
This is unbelievable that after all the crap women went through to be treated equally in the work place and then all the BS us men had to go through to be retrained on how to treat women in the office, there are some women who would try to pull stuff like this.
How can any woman do something like this knowing that it was the plight of women in the workplace for so long and yet she’s doing the exact same thing? What is it with some women who don’t understand that basic concept and just realize that what they are doing is wrong?
This woman is the lowest of the low.
I’ve seen this before where a woman acts like an idiot then claims that she was sexually assaulted.
On one occasion, a woman I worked with came up and grabbed my genitals to see if I would get aroused as a joke then she turned around three years later and sued the company for sexual harassment for something else that she wasn’t even present for!
Here is what I have to say about all this: Men make a lot of stupid decisions because biologically, when they see a woman they would like to “breed” with, hormones get released and we lose our rational thinking and would do stupid things like this. We have had to really retrain the way we think and burn it in our skulls that you just don’t do this in the workplace. Women don’t have the same biological stuff going on so when they get aroused. I really believe this woman loves having this power over Tim and she’s abusing this , and men need to stand up against things like this when anyone abuses their power.