BJ Shea

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BJ's BLOG 05/08/13 "Keep it to Yourself"

During Group Therapy yesterday, we read an email from a Rock-A-Holic named Kevin who found out some information he didn’t know if he should keep to himself or not.

While looking at an adult websites, he found naked pictures of his best friend’s daughter! She’s in her early 20’s so she’s not underage. The pictures were of her husband and her on a swinger’s website.

Kevin has known her since she was very young and isn’t sure how and if he should broach telling his buddy about this.

Look, if you’re not an actual part of the family, why say anything about something like this?

What if the buddy already knows and if fine with it and Kevin comes up to him with a disturbed/disapproving attitude? He might get offended by his disapproval!

It’s the internet, it’s not private information. Sooner or later this info will get revealed and that is for them to deal with in their family. It may be uncomfortable for you, but imagine how uncomfortable it would be for your buddy to hear this from you?




 
05/08/2013 10:23AM
BJ's BLOG 05/08/13 "Keep it to Yourself"
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05/08/2013 5:29PM
Stay out of their business period
The girl is in her 20's, is married, and it sounds like the husband is involved so why is it any of Kevin's business or her dad's for that matter. I can tell you that if my daughter was in that lifestyle I would rather not know. Hard to say how I would feel about it, but I still wouldn't want to know unless she decided I needed to know. I just don't understand why people feel the need to be up in other people's personal matters. It's one thing if he caught her shooting heroin, but this is just invasive to say the least.
05/08/2013 5:31PM
Stay out of her personal business
The girl is in her 20's, is married, and it sounds like the husband is involved so why is it any of Kevin's business or her dad's for that matter. I can tell you that if my daughter was in that lifestyle I would rather not know. Hard to say how I would feel about it, but I still wouldn't want to know unless she decided I needed to know. I just don't understand why people feel the need to be up in other people's personal matters. It's one thing if he caught her involved in illegal activity harmful to her health, but this is just invasive to say the least.
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