BJ's BLOG 05/08/13 "Keep it to Yourself"
During Group Therapy yesterday, we read an email from a Rock-A-Holic named Kevin who found out some information he didn’t know if he should keep to himself or not.
While looking at an adult websites, he found naked pictures of his best friend’s daughter! She’s in her early 20’s so she’s not underage. The pictures were of her husband and her on a swinger’s website.
Kevin has known her since she was very young and isn’t sure how and if he should broach telling his buddy about this.
Look, if you’re not an actual part of the family, why say anything about something like this?
What if the buddy already knows and if fine with it and Kevin comes up to him with a disturbed/disapproving attitude? He might get offended by his disapproval!
It’s the internet, it’s not private information. Sooner or later this info will get revealed and that is for them to deal with in their family. It may be uncomfortable for you, but imagine how uncomfortable it would be for your buddy to hear this from you?